I'm not...I'll never be good enough. I'm stupid, I'm fat and lazy, I can't speak right (I can't pronounce R's right, they come out as W's)...sometimes it just gets so hard to...k-keep going...why can't I ever be good enough...Cwitt wrote:Joy: We ate fish today. Its been forever since ive had fish. I love fish.Why would your mother hate you?naylorfan90 wrote:Sorrow: my mom hates me.
Joys And Sorrows
Moderator: ArcWolf
Re: Joys And Sorrows
- jopencjusz
- Posts: 1012
- Joined: Tue Mar 01, 2011 5:48 pm
- Location: Poznań (Poland)
- Contact:
Re: Joys And Sorrows
You're as good at something, as you belive in that you're good at this. I often hear that I'm useless, I can't do something right, that I've got problem with something, etc. But the true value of you is what you think about yourself. So I stoped listen others and concentrate on myself in this thing. I know that I can't do something, but I try to learn how do it properly and I don't listen much others opinions about some sort of things.
My account on DA (something happens since I'm back here )
My youtube accoint (with failed attemps to at least pretend I can sing)
Student, basketball referee, activist in old basketball club and official member of this club
My youtube accoint (with failed attemps to at least pretend I can sing)
Student, basketball referee, activist in old basketball club and official member of this club
- ChewyChewy
- Posts: 5460
- Joined: Wed Feb 24, 2010 3:23 pm
Re: Joys And Sorrows
naylorfan, listen to me.
You ARE good enough. Anyone can't see it, it's their loss. Try to focus less on the negatives and more on the positives--they ARE there, trust me. Case in point is your friends on this forum, and their kind words.
I know it's hard--I've been in that situation where I've been like, "WHAT positives?" But I turned around, and now I see PLENTY of positives. You can do it too, if you really want to and really try. As jopen said, what matters is what you think of yourself, not what someone else thinks of you--if YOU like yourself, other people's opinions don't matter. Try not to let their views influence your own.
Just hang in there, okay?
You ARE good enough. Anyone can't see it, it's their loss. Try to focus less on the negatives and more on the positives--they ARE there, trust me. Case in point is your friends on this forum, and their kind words.
I know it's hard--I've been in that situation where I've been like, "WHAT positives?" But I turned around, and now I see PLENTY of positives. You can do it too, if you really want to and really try. As jopen said, what matters is what you think of yourself, not what someone else thinks of you--if YOU like yourself, other people's opinions don't matter. Try not to let their views influence your own.
Just hang in there, okay?
PF chars
"We have to do this take again! HAL, do it with a LOT less emotion!"
"I'm sorry Stan, I'm afraid I can't do that."
--Phoenix
pair-o-dimes dot blogspot dot com
-
- Posts: 579
- Joined: Fri Mar 19, 2010 7:38 am
Re: Joys And Sorrows
You should listen to Chewy, naylor. You've got quite the support on these forums, as I see, as well. Hang in there.
- ResTheRabbit
- Posts: 388
- Joined: Sun Mar 13, 2011 1:19 pm
- Location: Louisiana, Baton Rouge
Re: Joys And Sorrows
I'm overly analytical about everything! That's a sorrow about it. My joy is that I know lots of things, but then it comes back to conflict with the sorrow. I just wanna be myself and not be so smart anymore. Sounds like a stupid thing to want I know. I do however have the joy of drawing well.
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Joy: Finally finished making my mothers wedding invites. Man, that took forever... if she wanted a watermark though, why didn't she take it to a professional. I'm good, but not that good.
Sorrow: It took 5 hours. D:<
Sorrow: It took 5 hours. D:<
Mareks: RG - S3 P5 E5 C7 I7 A10 L5
Jasper: SH - S9 P4 E6 C7 I6 A5 L5
Gian: BPS - S7 P5 E7 C7 I5 A6 L5
I Shall Dance the Dance of the Tired Dead©
Jasper: SH - S9 P4 E6 C7 I6 A5 L5
Gian: BPS - S7 P5 E7 C7 I5 A6 L5
I Shall Dance the Dance of the Tired Dead©
- FlintTheSquirrel
- Posts: 2374
- Joined: Sat Mar 27, 2010 6:30 pm
- Location: Sweden/North Carolina
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Joy: My brother found a "Malware Generator" during a scan, possibly the same one that has been destroying my computer and over taking it. Let us hope it is gone for good.
Flint: Str 4, Per 9, End 5, Cha 4, Int 5, Agi 10, Luc 2
(Lucid's Drawing of Flint!)
The original idea of Flint is created by Cobalt Kitty
(Aqua's drawing of Flint!)
(Lucid's Drawing of Flint!)
The original idea of Flint is created by Cobalt Kitty
(Aqua's drawing of Flint!)
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Joy
I've spend 8 hours in black room
Why It's a joy? Because I like to work in black room
I've spend 8 hours in black room
Why It's a joy? Because I like to work in black room
I'm a bookworm!
- ChewyChewy
- Posts: 5460
- Joined: Wed Feb 24, 2010 3:23 pm
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Sorrow: was in a fender bender today.
PF chars
"We have to do this take again! HAL, do it with a LOT less emotion!"
"I'm sorry Stan, I'm afraid I can't do that."
--Phoenix
pair-o-dimes dot blogspot dot com
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Joy: I got my temps! I now have the freedom to drive with a parent or guardian during any daylight hour!
...
Wee...?
...
Wee...?
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Sorrow: A very close friend of mine had to give up school when his GPA fell below 2.0...
Re: Joys And Sorrows
This is not a signature.
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Joy: Me and my tennis partner made an awesome comeback and kicked butt!
Joy: I won my singles match 6 to nothing!
Sorrow: It's Monday
Joy: One school day down, four more to go!
Joy: I won my singles match 6 to nothing!
Sorrow: It's Monday
Joy: One school day down, four more to go!
- jopencjusz
- Posts: 1012
- Joined: Tue Mar 01, 2011 5:48 pm
- Location: Poznań (Poland)
- Contact:
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Joy: I've already read 2 of 3 books which I need for tuesday's (it's already in Poland) and wednesday's tests
Sorrow: Despite of this, I still feel unprepared for all of them
Sorrow: Despite of this, I still feel unprepared for all of them
My account on DA (something happens since I'm back here )
My youtube accoint (with failed attemps to at least pretend I can sing)
Student, basketball referee, activist in old basketball club and official member of this club
My youtube accoint (with failed attemps to at least pretend I can sing)
Student, basketball referee, activist in old basketball club and official member of this club
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Joy: I will have a three day weekend!
Sorrow: Until then, I must work...Yay! Make that a joy.
Sorrow: Until then, I must work...Yay! Make that a joy.
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Sorrow
I was supposed to have a test today from History of Photography. But it was cancelled. And I was studying for it... especially last night. I slept only 3 hours :/
It's moved on the next week. But It only makes matters worse, because I have a test from chemistry then. So now I have to study for both tests...
I was supposed to have a test today from History of Photography. But it was cancelled. And I was studying for it... especially last night. I slept only 3 hours :/
It's moved on the next week. But It only makes matters worse, because I have a test from chemistry then. So now I have to study for both tests...
I'm a bookworm!
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Sorrow: Surgery date was moved again, now instead of March 29th, it's May 3rd.
Joy: If they move it again, I'm just going to tell them off and cancel the surgery. I've lived perfectly fine with thise thing for 4 years already, I don't mind a life time. It hinders me in no way.
Joy: If they move it again, I'm just going to tell them off and cancel the surgery. I've lived perfectly fine with thise thing for 4 years already, I don't mind a life time. It hinders me in no way.
Mareks: RG - S3 P5 E5 C7 I7 A10 L5
Jasper: SH - S9 P4 E6 C7 I6 A5 L5
Gian: BPS - S7 P5 E7 C7 I5 A6 L5
I Shall Dance the Dance of the Tired Dead©
Jasper: SH - S9 P4 E6 C7 I6 A5 L5
Gian: BPS - S7 P5 E7 C7 I5 A6 L5
I Shall Dance the Dance of the Tired Dead©
Re: Joys And Sorrows
That's weird. Why are they moving the surgery? And what are you operating, again? I forgot
Re: Joys And Sorrows
A cyst/growth from my lower back near my spine.Alex wrote:That's weird. Why are they moving the surgery? And what are you operating, again? I forgot
And they move it further away because "we have more important surgeries". In other words, their putting the people with more money ahead of me.
Mareks: RG - S3 P5 E5 C7 I7 A10 L5
Jasper: SH - S9 P4 E6 C7 I6 A5 L5
Gian: BPS - S7 P5 E7 C7 I5 A6 L5
I Shall Dance the Dance of the Tired Dead©
Jasper: SH - S9 P4 E6 C7 I6 A5 L5
Gian: BPS - S7 P5 E7 C7 I5 A6 L5
I Shall Dance the Dance of the Tired Dead©
-
- Posts: 112
- Joined: Wed Dec 23, 2009 3:29 am
- Location: Either in the mountains, or by the many lakes.
- Contact:
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Sorrow: My cat was missing for a day. Because of the area we live in, there's a lot of predators like cougars, foxes, bears, ect. And we thought he was eaten.
Joy: He came back last night while I was at work!!!
Joy: He came back last night while I was at work!!!
Hey look a distraction!!!!
- jopencjusz
- Posts: 1012
- Joined: Tue Mar 01, 2011 5:48 pm
- Location: Poznań (Poland)
- Contact:
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Joy: I've writen all tests
Sorrow: Probably only one of them I pass
2nd Joy: I don't have classes on monday!
Sorrow: Probably only one of them I pass
2nd Joy: I don't have classes on monday!
My account on DA (something happens since I'm back here )
My youtube accoint (with failed attemps to at least pretend I can sing)
Student, basketball referee, activist in old basketball club and official member of this club
My youtube accoint (with failed attemps to at least pretend I can sing)
Student, basketball referee, activist in old basketball club and official member of this club
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Sorrow: hurt my arm in long jump today. i cant use it for anything, and it was my right hand! if my posts look werid, itz cuz im typing with my left hand.
- 44R0NM10
- Former Mod of the Aura
- Posts: 4011
- Joined: Mon Mar 29, 2010 5:52 pm
- Location: England
- Contact:
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Joy: going my potential step-Dad's house tonight.
Sorrow: no Internet (or very little), and I'll be around my little brother much too much for anybody to handle.
Sorrow: no Internet (or very little), and I'll be around my little brother much too much for anybody to handle.
- jopencjusz
- Posts: 1012
- Joined: Tue Mar 01, 2011 5:48 pm
- Location: Poznań (Poland)
- Contact:
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Sorrow: I can't finish one drawing since wednesday, still got only sketch
My account on DA (something happens since I'm back here )
My youtube accoint (with failed attemps to at least pretend I can sing)
Student, basketball referee, activist in old basketball club and official member of this club
My youtube accoint (with failed attemps to at least pretend I can sing)
Student, basketball referee, activist in old basketball club and official member of this club
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Joy: Finally going to get my tax return today.
Sorrow: :/ I've made so little, I'll be lucky to receive $50.
Sorrow: :/ I've made so little, I'll be lucky to receive $50.
Mareks: RG - S3 P5 E5 C7 I7 A10 L5
Jasper: SH - S9 P4 E6 C7 I6 A5 L5
Gian: BPS - S7 P5 E7 C7 I5 A6 L5
I Shall Dance the Dance of the Tired Dead©
Jasper: SH - S9 P4 E6 C7 I6 A5 L5
Gian: BPS - S7 P5 E7 C7 I5 A6 L5
I Shall Dance the Dance of the Tired Dead©
Re: Joys And Sorrows
That's much better than nothingMareks wrote:Joy: Finally going to get my tax return today.
Sorrow: :/ I've made so little, I'll be lucky to receive $50.
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Sorrow: I've got a D+ in one class, and a D- in another...
- Blue Braixen
- Ms. Sunshine
- Posts: 5865
- Joined: Wed Sep 29, 2010 5:48 pm
- Location: Mountainous places
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Joy: I get a three day weekend.
Sorrow: This week has been stressful and damaging to my ears.
Sorrow: This week has been stressful and damaging to my ears.
- ResTheRabbit
- Posts: 388
- Joined: Sun Mar 13, 2011 1:19 pm
- Location: Louisiana, Baton Rouge
Re: Joys And Sorrows
I colored my avatar! That's the joy.
The sorrow is that I had to do it while I'm sick.
The sorrow is that I had to do it while I'm sick.
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Joy: good fishing today!!
Bino wrote:I don't have any tricks up my sleeve right now that don't involve roleplaying...
So...... *kisses sleet* BOOM! I WIN!
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Joy: I just ordered a sonic screwdriver on Amazon. BOW BEFORE MY GEEKINESS! BOWWWWWWW!!!
Re: Joys And Sorrows
*bows to Naylor*
Joy:Today we had the first true Spring showers. The sun was shining and the rain was pouring. Rainbows are a beautiful sight indeed.
Joy:Today we had the first true Spring showers. The sun was shining and the rain was pouring. Rainbows are a beautiful sight indeed.
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Joy: I don't have throat cancer! Or apparently anything else worth worrying about immediately.
Sorrow: We still don't know what's wrong with my throat.
Sorrow: Huge programming project due on Monday that I've barely started.
Sorrow: We still don't know what's wrong with my throat.
Sorrow: Huge programming project due on Monday that I've barely started.
You've shattered my mind and rearranged the pieces into something beautiful.
Re: Joys And Sorrows
HAHA!!! I got $50.66 >:3 I call that an awesome guess!Alex wrote:That's much better than nothingMareks wrote:Joy: Finally going to get my tax return today.
Sorrow: :/ I've made so little, I'll be lucky to receive $50.
Mareks: RG - S3 P5 E5 C7 I7 A10 L5
Jasper: SH - S9 P4 E6 C7 I6 A5 L5
Gian: BPS - S7 P5 E7 C7 I5 A6 L5
I Shall Dance the Dance of the Tired Dead©
Jasper: SH - S9 P4 E6 C7 I6 A5 L5
Gian: BPS - S7 P5 E7 C7 I5 A6 L5
I Shall Dance the Dance of the Tired Dead©
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Sorrow: I'm stuck in a mood. Sucks.
- jopencjusz
- Posts: 1012
- Joined: Tue Mar 01, 2011 5:48 pm
- Location: Poznań (Poland)
- Contact:
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Sorrow: I'm tired today
2nd sorrow: I didn't make any new drawing during the weekend
3rd sorrow: I've got tomorrow free day but I have to get up early
Joy: Nothing to do until tomorrow
2nd sorrow: I didn't make any new drawing during the weekend
3rd sorrow: I've got tomorrow free day but I have to get up early
Joy: Nothing to do until tomorrow
My account on DA (something happens since I'm back here )
My youtube accoint (with failed attemps to at least pretend I can sing)
Student, basketball referee, activist in old basketball club and official member of this club
My youtube accoint (with failed attemps to at least pretend I can sing)
Student, basketball referee, activist in old basketball club and official member of this club
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Sorrow: I think I got strep... ; -; It hurts.
Mareks: RG - S3 P5 E5 C7 I7 A10 L5
Jasper: SH - S9 P4 E6 C7 I6 A5 L5
Gian: BPS - S7 P5 E7 C7 I5 A6 L5
I Shall Dance the Dance of the Tired Dead©
Jasper: SH - S9 P4 E6 C7 I6 A5 L5
Gian: BPS - S7 P5 E7 C7 I5 A6 L5
I Shall Dance the Dance of the Tired Dead©
- FlintTheSquirrel
- Posts: 2374
- Joined: Sat Mar 27, 2010 6:30 pm
- Location: Sweden/North Carolina
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Joy: It is my 1-Year Anniversary on the forums. Yay me, I guess. Though I did not talk until after a while from when I joined. I was so shy back then.....
Flint: Str 4, Per 9, End 5, Cha 4, Int 5, Agi 10, Luc 2
(Lucid's Drawing of Flint!)
The original idea of Flint is created by Cobalt Kitty
(Aqua's drawing of Flint!)
(Lucid's Drawing of Flint!)
The original idea of Flint is created by Cobalt Kitty
(Aqua's drawing of Flint!)
Re: Joys And Sorrows
Sorrow
My dad made me upset. And because of that, I wasn't able to do anything I've planned today.
My dad made me upset. And because of that, I wasn't able to do anything I've planned today.
I'm a bookworm!