Housepets!

I am absolutely certain my parents have no clue what a furry is. But I'm confident that if I did tell them what one was, and that I am one, then they would tell me "That's stupid. Grow up." Yeah, my parents are kinda like that. They're usually pretty good, but they see a lot of things as childish and immature.

That being said, they have no idea. My sister? Same as above, except she would probably say, "Oh, that's kinda cool."

My girlfriend is a furry as well, so I have no worries here.

My brother, on the other hand, was looking over my shoulder while I was looking through my folders on my laptop. His eyes saw the folder labeled, "Furry" and he looked at me weird and said, "Really? Furry? Really?" He asked sarcastically. So I think it's obvious he has a negative view on furries, and he might be suspecting that I am one.

My friends IRL? Only one knows I'm a furry, but I'm sure that most of my irl friends would have no problem if I was a furry.

what Nitrosparxx said.
they have no idea what a furry is,
All they know, is that I draw them, and they thing it's a more productive thing to do then play World of Warcraft all day.

so yay, my parents support being a furry over playing WoW
My classmate was also frowning at me first, until I made him a drawing of his Tauren, now he's all like, "yay furry"

To continue my previous post, my family has seen several of the furry wallpapers i have. Though they've said nothing of it. As it looks like something random to them. Since they're not a furry themselves.

It's kind of half yes half no. I wear a collar and such, every now and then, but then never really got into why I was wearing it. I have a tail and ears as well.

My mom just thinks I'm one of those people who would jump into a mascot outfit if given the chance... umm, a fur suit? I think thats what it's called.

Well my parents are very anti furry so I try to hide it from them

Well it's hard to find anyone in New Zealand that knows what a furry is, let alone my parents. I don't see a need to tell them and their pretty open minded so I don't think it would make a difference if I did. I'm also pretty sure my little brother is one too, but Ill let him figure that out for himself. I told my friends and only one was a bit weirded out a first, the rest either didn't know or didn't care. My newly immigrated American media studies teacher on the other hand had a very negative and strange idea of what furries were. Spent half a class trying to explain it, I was just laughing to myself.

viridis wrote:Well it's hard to find anyone in New Zealand that knows what a furry is, let alone my parents. I don't see a need to tell them and their pretty open minded so I don't think it would make a difference if I did. I'm also pretty sure my little brother is one too, but Ill let him figure that out for himself. I told my friends and only one was a bit weirded out a first, the rest either didn't know or didn't care. My newly immigrated American media studies teacher on the other hand had a very negative and strange idea of what furries were. Spent half a class trying to explain it, I was just laughing to myself.

As an American furry, I really want to hear that explanation.

viridis wrote:Well it's hard to find anyone in New Zealand that knows what a furry is, let alone my parents. I don't see a need to tell them and their pretty open minded so I don't think it would make a difference if I did. I'm also pretty sure my little brother is one too, but Ill let him figure that out for himself. I told my friends and only one was a bit weirded out a first, the rest either didn't know or didn't care. My newly immigrated American media studies teacher on the other hand had a very negative and strange idea of what furries were. Spent half a class trying to explain it, I was just laughing to myself.

your teacher was trying to explain what furries were to the whole class?

Yea trying is the key word. I don't think anyone cared or understood but it was a good laugh for me. I probably can't say what she was saying on these forums, she probably wasn't allowed to say it in class either tbh haha.

why was she doing that?

Yeah, I'm curious.

mariomarc wrote:why was she doing that?

I really can't remember how she got onto talking about it from what we were studying, which was horror films. May have been something about a Disney film, but I can't even remember. She was a very strange teacher always told us her opinions on everything, other than that I have no idea why she was doing it.

weird

I Don't really know at this point because the only two furry comics that I am "up to date" with is Housepets and Two Kinds. Either way I do like them alot and can see myself later on doing fanart and such.....I dunno maybe being a furry is going to be kinda fun, untill the point where im put into a corner with family members surrounding me pleading I give up my furry lifestyle. It may come to that if you tell your parents anything???????~!

It's more of a hobby than a lifestyle, if even that. As long as you explain it right and they don't have any preconceived notions from watching CSI or something like that, there's not much to be worried about. Unless they don't approve of nerdy or silly stuff in the first place.

Sleet wrote:It's more of a hobby than a lifestyle, if even that. As long as you explain it right and they don't have any preconceived notions from watching CSI or something like that, there's not much to be worried about. Unless they don't approve of nerdy or silly stuff in the first place.

Ya I guess that makes more, so I think being a furry will be enjoyable.

Really? I thought most parents would be less open-minded than your teenager friends. Besides, the parents might find the idea of being furry weird, and that's why people are usually reluctant to tell their parents. While it is true your friends could also find it weird, but the parents might try to force their child to change, where your friends would probably just shun you or something.

In my opinion, parents are probably less open-minded and are more likely to force their opinion. While the friends are more likely to be open-minded and can't really force you.

Honestly, I think the idea that being a furry is some big confession to your parents comes from people who are furries in really weird ways. Even if other people are perfectly normal furries, this idea that it's some big confession rubs off on them.

It's just an interest, really. It's nothing to be too concerned about.

Sleet wrote:Honestly, I think the idea that being a furry is some big confession to your parents comes from people who are furries in really weird ways. Even if other people are perfectly normal furries, this idea that it's some big confession rubs off on them.

It's just an interest, really. It's nothing to be too concerned about.

well even if it's not a 'big confession' to someone the topic's still fine – as an example, being into anime was never a big confession for a friend of mine (which would normally be obvious, but she is really into anime to the point of anime quality blindness – she even likes naruto) but yeah, her parents kind of know about it, duh.



. . . i don't know if putting it in that way will get what i mean across, but hey, i tried

What I think you're saying is more or less what I think. Saying you're a furry isn't really any different than saying you like anime.

Although my parents don't fully understand what a furry is, they are fine with it as long as it's not on the 'weird' level.

My mother loves the fact that i like animals, even cartoon ones. she sees no problem with it. My dad loves teasing me about it, comparing it to something like a 'girl' thing >_____________> but luckily i know it's just teasing. can get aggravating though =P

My mom already knows that I draw this stuff, and I've shown her Housepets strips before. She doesn't seem to mind any of it, just that I spend too long on here. My dad, however...he has no idea and I'd like to keep it that way...he likes to overreact.

I brushed the subject with my parents the other day. We were talking about all sorts of things that people have as hobbies. From what I could gather, my dad could care less what someone is interested in or does, as long as it doesn't interfere with his social and working life.

My mom said that it's just good for people to have a hobby. Really, she said, "Everyone needs a hobby, like you do with your anime, those Warhammer models and those drawings of animals you do." lol. Drawings of animals I do.

viridis wrote:

mariomarc wrote:why was she doing that?

I really can't remember how she got onto talking about it from what we were studying, which was horror films. May have been something about a Disney film, but I can't even remember. She was a very strange teacher always told us her opinions on everything, other than that I have no idea why she was doing it.

My bible teahcer talked about anthro :3

Eh, no. And yes?

The topic has certainly come up, and I've told them everything that I do that would make me a furry, basically ("Well, see, I have this character that's half-cat and half-wolf that I use as my online avatar..."). Only thing I haven't said is "I am a furry," and unless asked point blank, probably wouldn't say so, since I see no reason to.

I mean, it's jus' a hobby. I've basically told everyone I know, including my girlfriend, and they don't care... The trick? Not rubbing it in people's faces, or making it otherwise obviously annoying (i.e. Wearing Tail to school without reason = bad idea). Talking against pre-conceived notions? A careful and balanced explanation, as to not appear biased, works wonders. Surprisingly, it's a lot easier for a furry to co-exist easily with people who don't like furries than one might think. Example would be me (a furry) and my IRL friends ("at least you're not one of those crazy people who wear ears and a tail to school/work").

Seriously, being a furry isn't as big as people make it out to be sometimes.

Buckdida wrote:Eh, no. And yes?

The topic has certainly come up, and I've told them everything that I do that would make me a furry, basically ("Well, see, I have this character that's half-cat and half-wolf that I use as my online avatar..."). Only thing I haven't said is "I am a furry," and unless asked point blank, probably wouldn't say so, since I see no reason to.

I mean, it's jus' a hobby. I've basically told everyone I know, including my girlfriend, and they don't care... The trick? Not rubbing it in people's faces, or making it otherwise obviously annoying (i.e. Wearing Tail to school without reason = bad idea). Talking against pre-conceived notions? A careful and balanced explanation, as to not appear biased, works wonders. Surprisingly, it's a lot easier for a furry to co-exist easily with people who don't like furries than one might think. Example would be me (a furry) and my IRL friends ("at least you're not one of those crazy people who wear ears and a tail to school/work").

Seriously, being a furry isn't as big as people make it out to be sometimes.

Thank you.

I was having a conversation at the dinner table and said I talked to "a group of people" online. They asked "what group of people?" I was very nervous, but they wouldn't stop bothering me until they got an answer. They were worried that I was hanging out with some sort of "government overthrow" conspiracy (It's worth noting that I have very strong political opinions of which I am not able to express on this forum). Then I said, "They're called furries."

They actually breathed a sigh of relief.

Anthroguy101 wrote:I was having a conversation at the dinner table and said I talked to "a group of people" online. They asked "what group of people?" I was very nervous, but they wouldn't stop bothering me until they got an answer. They were worried that I was hanging out with some sort of "government overthrow" conspiracy (It's worth noting that I have very strong political opinions of which I am not able to express on this forum). Then I said, "They're called furries."

They actually breathed a sigh of relief.

lol

Wait, so in order to crown yourself as a furry you need a fursuit?

No thanks then, it's the one thing that I don't like about anthromorphism

EDIT: My parents don't know, I don't think they'd approve of me.

Yes, that's totally not necessary to be a furry. I'd be surprised if any of us here owns a fursuit. I just have a tail and a collar and even that's more animal apparel than most furries have.

Sleet wrote:Yes, that's totally not necessary to be a furry. I'd be surprised if any of us here owns a fursuit. I just have a tail and a collar and even that's more animal apparel than most furries have.

I have none of that stuff...although a tail would be awesome.

Tha Housedog wrote:

Sleet wrote:Yes, that's totally not necessary to be a furry. I'd be surprised if any of us here owns a fursuit. I just have a tail and a collar and even that's more animal apparel than most furries have.

I have none of that stuff...although a tail would be awesome.

you'll need ears with that

mariomarc wrote:

Tha Housedog wrote:

Sleet wrote:Yes, that's totally not necessary to be a furry. I'd be surprised if any of us here owns a fursuit. I just have a tail and a collar and even that's more animal apparel than most furries have.

I have none of that stuff...although a tail would be awesome.

you'll need ears with that

...Maybe so. It'd be kinda cool to have dog ears...*Starts daydreaming*